Jgirl89
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Flirting is not a precise science, but there are some things you can do! Basic social skills will certainly help, but in addition, there are some tricks that can show your interest and help engage theirs.
Make eye contact as much as possible, but don’t stare. Eye contact shows that you’re interested and engaged in what the other person is saying or doing, and that you actually care about that rather than their physical appearance. To women especially, this is very attractive!
Another technique is called “mirroring.” This is when you angle and move your body in a way that’s similar to the other person; if they cross their legs, you cross your legs, and if they hold their drink to one side of their body, you do the same. You shouldn’t simply mimic them, as this can be both obvious and annoying, but it is natural for people who are attracted to one another to exhibit this behavior.
Smiling and appearing friendly is also incredibly important. If you frown or look blank, it seems as if you aren’t having a good time with the woman, even if you are! Don’t be afraid to show your pleasure with the situation. Women like to know that you enjoy their company!
Last, one thing that most women appreciate in the initial flirting stage is masculinity. Naturally, women enjoy a man who appears strong and male. Stand up straight to appear taller, and keep your confidence! A dominant man is an attractive one, so long as he is still sensitive and engaged with the woman’s personality and mind.
Good luck! We’re not so difficult once you start understanding us! Here’s a video talking about what I said, and the girl narrating has a lovely accent.
 Posted 5541 day ago
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